There comes a time in everyone’s life where the onus is on you, someone will need you to give them a solid answer and things just won’t work out peachy-keen.
I don’t know at which point in your life this will happen, most likely it will start in your twenties when it feels like you are living in a middle child syndrome nightmare; everyone wants something from you or expects things.
That cannot always happen.
But you live through it all and you learn to just take the good with the good and the bad and whatever…
I say who cares and plaster that fake smile on your face and just go along with the winds and let them take you where they may.