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I have been inspired.
Why mid-February? I don’t know…and I know I am six weeks too late, but I don’t think bettering yourself should have a time limit or a date of initiation or anything like that.
This online blogging world has opened my eyes to a ton of new things:
Out-of-the-box and very yummy cooking
Inspiring daily anecdotes
And good old-fashion inspiration
I have made some new “friends”:
Tranquil Dreams
A Physical Perspective
And even reconnected with some old
:
Splendiferous Everything
But what I am actually reeling from at this moment is my decision as a 26-year-old girl to buy a condo. Yes; become a homeowner. While the steps are still being taken, it has lifted a huge weight off of my chest to take this leap of faith (as my dad pointed out, what really are you saving that money for? A new car or a new house…don’t need a new car right now). It is scary yes, but empowering.
Freakishly empowering.
My first thought was buying a unit (condo speak, for all of you single family home owners) with TONS of closet space and a generous kitchen. The kicker, is the first unit I saw is my dream home; so I am keeping my fingers crossed that I can really find a perfect place – maybe this is luck! And not a dwelling, but an actual home. I can picture what colors the walls will be and the signature scent for all candles and Glade Plug-Ins that succumb.
Living with my parents makes this all that much funnier, because every conversation surrounds “your new home” like I already own it! – which, for the record, I do not; but the proper steps are being taken in the order they are supposed to.
I have started gutting out my life; getting rid of everything I don’t need and downsizing and accepting the fact that I do not own a manageable amount of belongings. Clothes and shoes are finally being removed from my closets – I have been the same size for over ten years, mind you – and non-essentials are being forgotten about completely.
I started my “bettering myself year” (in February) by making a page in my nifty carry-around notebook of each month and making measureable goals for myself. Realistic and achievable, I already feel accomplished. Things like in the month of June I will not eat fried foods and in April I will rid my closet of three items of clothing a week.
This was then followed-up with a print out of each month, where I can highlight and write in the boxes daily. Color-coded to perfection, I am planned out daily through the end of March. On February 13th (tomorrow!) I will clean out and organize all of my paperwork – I mean I probably don’t need my explanation of benefits package from a job I left over a year ago! On March 13th I will purge every educational item I have collected from higher education (PR from 2007-2008 is moot at this point anyway…social media marketing wasn’t in existence in those text books!)
One task each day. Just one. I can do a significant amount of them while I sit in front of the TV – but they must get done. Some will take 5 minutes, some will take 2 hours – but the point is they will be done. They will be crossed off the list and neatly packaged and put away.
All for the greater good of a new home that I can call all my own.
I feel good, like really good. I don’t even need to think of a fancy vocab word to stick there; but it is just how I feel. Good.
WordPressers out in the world – wish me luck! This is a big and fantastic step; realistic and attainable in all of its glory. And it is all mine.
Shine on, you crazy diamonds.
Good Luck in finding and buying your own place. There are truely some great values out there. http://ourlifein3d.com/?s=lets+go+shopping We are looking right now too and 1 by 1 everyone wants me to pay them one more time. Our foundation needs a quick fix, the termite inspection guy wants another $300 to keep the bond going and this morning our water heater quit. My tip…look for a condo…one that comes with a maintenance man.
Good luck!
Thanks! Definitely looking at one bedroom condos right now. No need for outside maintenance or lawn care!